🍆3 Things that Make an Unforgettable Blow Job!🍌

Let's not beat around the bush, not everyone is 110% confident when it comes to their oral game. Yes, we know there are those fellatio queens who can blow like it's their job and kudos to anyone with killer oral skills. Yet, what about the rest of us? One of the top questions I get asked as a pleasure coach is about blowjobs, and how to make them better and hotter. So here it is! I have explored the Internet, looked through tons of intimacy research and even went straight to the source to get the best secrets to that unforgettable oral blow.

1. The top thing for most men when it comes to playing with them downstairs is, enthusiasm! Yep, that's right. It matters to them how badly you want to travel south on their bods.When you exhibit enthusiasm to please this shows your partner that you desire them. It also expresses that you are excited about what's to come, specifically them. No guy will really enjoy it if you're not. Especially if your thoughts consist of chatter like, "When is this going to be over?". A great tip I love to give is to utilize the proper mindset for the activity.

For example, what would a woman who loves giving oral be thinking prior to and during the act? Would she be constantly pondering things like, "When is he going to come?", "What am I going to wear tomorrow?", "What am I going to do for dinner?". No! She would be thinking more along the lines of, "I can't wait to taste my Partner!", " I get so hot knowing I'm going to blow my guy!",  "I've been waiting to play all day with him!". Keep your head in the game and his will be exploding with gratitude before you know it. Oral giving may not be every girl's favorite sexual activity but with the right enthusiasm, I promise your partner will take notice and it may even assist you in growing fonder of fellatio pleasure.

2. Now, tip 2 is enough to take him over the edge. In combination with number one your next BJ receiver doesn't stand a chance. This next amazing tip runs in behind enthusiasm but is enough to take you to a whole new level of oral giving. If you don't already know this, guys have admitted, that sensory stimuli gets their blood pumping! This is a great time to use this natural tool. Visual stimuli is amazing for warming him up and taking him to climax. Men enjoy sexual images, pleasurable sounds, and explicit detail.

Dress in something revealing and provocative. Utilize different parts of your body to play with him, so not just hands and mouth. Make sounds like moans and hums. This tells him you're enjoying it and these sexy sounds also create a low form of vibration that's tantalizing while he's in your mouth. Want to get him even hotter? Talk dirty to him, tell him how much you desire him or the things that you want to do to him.

This is a sure way to get him closer to that explosive end. Remember to stay in the moment and to own your own pleasure. When you start getting extremely aroused and need some attention use your free hand or guide his to rub, pinch, flick, or touch your areas that are begging for it. He'll appreciate this little addition to, trust me.

3. Tip three is all about those techniques or BJ knowledge and I'm about to give you some of the best ones. Biologically and anatomically speaking the male genitalia responds similar to our female parts, they just need the stimuli in different areas. Using flicking, sucking, popping, or licking around the head (Glans) works well for the nerves in this area. When moving lower down his shaft use a firmer grip, and apply up and down strokes along with softer twisting. The nerves in this area of his shaft like pressure and firmer tighter grip's.

Don't forget about his testicles too! A lot of men have said women completely forget or don't pay enough attention to their balls, so don't forget about those fun bags.

Guys like them rubbed, sucked, licked, or squeezed and tugged, lightly of course. Yet, don't be afraid to use a little more pressure when playing with your male partner, they appreciate a little more than what we usually enjoy. This next amazing spot has many names, for me, I like calling it by its medically correct term perineum. But you may call it what you like, fun spot, taint, Gooch, Brown Bridge… Whatever, just know this area is a sensory treasure zone on your guy. Now, not every guy is going to be stoked when you travel here. It takes time, trust and comfortability with many men, so give them that. When you do get to play with this area know that it is covered in nerves and has the ability to stimulate his prostate!

So, if you have no idea what I'm talking about let me very briefly explain. Men have a prostate gland located in the anal canal which is like our female G spot. When men have explained the pleasure or orgasm they receive from stimuli of this gland they often use the term "Best Orgasm Ever!". Keep in mind that not every man wants to take the back road less traveled into Prostate play but using his perineum is a great place to start. The perineum is located below the prostate, so applying pressure here with one or two fingers while simultaneously stimulating the scrotum or shaft and head will make him tremble.

Try also licking or sucking on this area if he's comfortable with it. Of course, ask your partner to jump in the shower for a quick clean, prior to play, this way you'll have no sanitary issues with getting down and dirty. If you and your partner are interested in exploring Prostate play further remember to educate on it prior, or stay tuned for my upcoming article on prostate play.

Here are just a few more amazing tips for an unforgettable blow. . .

🍌• -Start teasing him from head to toe, leaving his naughty spots for last.

🍆• -Begin gently and then increase suction and pressure and you get more into it.

💦• -Remember, Wetter is Better, use plenty of saliva for the job or a yummy flavored lube!

💦 • -You can also use a flavored lube to add enthusiasm and flow.

👅• -The gag reflex eases with time and practice (I promise).

🔥❄•-Use mints or a hot and cold drink (drink This right before) to change up sensation.

👀 • -Remember to lock eyes with your partner while you're playing with him or during orgasm, this will create a deeper intimacy.

I hope you're more excited about giving your partner their next dose of oral play. Remember that each person is different so you may need to tweak or alter some of these tips to meet your partner's pleasure needs. Communication is one of the best tools for us to utilize during any sexual act. It can assist in communicating desires and pleasures, and that means getting your needs met while simultaneously meeting the needs of your partner.

Try to give without expectation of return. Yes, the best situation is when they reciprocate oral back but don't get upset if they don't return the favor, they may be so turned on they're ready to burst. Also, think about what you want to do with the final surprise a.k.a. his ejaculation. Swallowing it won't do much to your body and letting them get it all over you certainly plays well to their visual stimuli. Just make sure to wash up with soap and warm water and brush your teeth once you two are done playing. If you really want him to reciprocate try going into a 69 position while giving him pleasure. This is the best option for a mutual oral solution.

Last, but certainly not least, remember to play it safe. If you're with a new partner or have an open relationship, protect yourself, (Ex. condoms, dental dams, STI or STD tests etc.) and discuss these methods prior to the act. Also discuss any sexual boundaries prior, this will make sure you are both on the same page when the time comes.

Try out these techniques and also make up some of your own that are specific to your partner. With practice and effort, you'll be ready to jump into that, steamy, wet, delicious, fellatio. If you want to know more or get deeper into fellacio work, I offer a BlowJob workshop for Los Angeles residents only, at the moment. Please email me or contact me through Booking on this page or through social media if you're interested in hosting a workshop. They're fun, educational, enlightening and transformative! Take a class and test or better your oral skills!! Have fun and play safe!! Now...go blow!!

Cali Coach Nikki © 2018